Who in the Bible Was Advised by Bad Friends?

Jan 03,2025 00:00
Written by: Blessed App
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Who in the Bible Was Advised by Bad Friends and What Can We Learn?

The Bible warns us about the dangers of bad company and the influence that friends can have on our decisions. Throughout Scripture, we find stories of individuals who were influenced by bad advice from friends, with often tragic results. These accounts serve as valuable lessons about the importance of seeking wise counsel and the impact of surrounding ourselves with the right people.

Rehoboam: A King Who Listened to Foolish Counsel

One of the most significant examples of a leader who was advised by bad friends is Rehoboam, the son of King Solomon. After the death of his father, Rehoboam ascended to the throne of Israel. The people of Israel asked him to lighten the heavy burden of taxes and labor that his father had placed on them. Rehoboam first consulted the elders who had served his father, and they advised him to be a servant to the people and to answer their request kindly. However, Rehoboam turned to his younger friends, who suggested that he increase the burden on the people to assert his authority. He followed their advice, leading to a split in the kingdom of Israel. As a result, ten of the twelve tribes rebelled, and the kingdom was divided (1 Kings 12:1-19).

King Ahab and the Prophets of Baal

King Ahab of Israel was another example of someone who allowed bad advice from his associates to lead him astray. Ahab married Jezebel, a wicked woman who encouraged him to worship false gods, particularly Baal. In 1 Kings 16:30-33, Ahab’s reign was marked by idolatry and wickedness, and his bad decisions were reinforced by Jezebel’s counsel. In 1 Kings 18:19-40, Ahab gathered 450 prophets of Baal, following their advice and engaging in idol worship. This led to the confrontation with the prophet Elijah on Mount Carmel, where God demonstrated His superiority over Baal. Ahab’s willingness to listen to his wicked wife and her counselors resulted in great consequences for Israel.

Job's Friends: Misguided Counsel

In the Book of Job, we see Job’s friends offer advice that is ultimately unhelpful and misguided. After Job faced immense suffering, his three friends—Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar—came to comfort him, but instead of offering true counsel, they accused him of sin and blamed him for his misfortune. Their advice was not only wrong but also hurtful. In Job 42:7, God rebukes them, saying, “Ye have not spoken of me the thing that is right, as my servant Job hath.” This story reminds us that even well-intentioned friends can sometimes give harmful advice when they do not understand the full situation.

The Importance of Wise Counsel

Throughout these stories, we learn the importance of seeking wise and godly counsel, especially during times of decision-making. Proverbs 12:15 says, “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise.” We are reminded that, like Rehoboam, Ahab, and Job, the company we keep can significantly influence our lives and decisions. It is crucial to seek out wise, biblical counsel when facing important choices and to avoid the influence of bad friends who may lead us down a destructive path.

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